I remember wanting to talk to this really pretty girl one time. I finally got the nerve to go say hello to her. My palms were sweaty and my heart was racing. Every insecure thought i’ve ever had about myself was going through my head weakening my resolve by the moment. I get within earshot [...]

What is it about the first three minutes of an interaction that scares us so much? Most guys with a little practice are able to open fine, but it is that first few minutes that really messes with our heads. In this time we seem to get commitment or not. So much of it is [...]

“Everyone is looking for that perfect opener, there isn’t one. But if there was, the closest thing to it is having style” JCH
I was a carhartt and t-shirt kinda guy for a long time. I ventured into learning to be stylish and understand fashion around the time i got into “the game”. I took it [...]

One of the things we stress is the power of Vibe. This mysterious super power is often misunderstood. Vibe is all of the communication you are sending that has nothing to do with your words and everything to do with bodylanguage, tonality, facial expressions, and a lot more. So how does one learn to put [...]

There I was, watching this client talk to an old woman like he was talking to a piece of furniture. All the techniques were being done but you could tell he was not interested in talking to her. Over and over I hear, I stopped talking to her because i just wasn’t attracted to her. [...]