A recent forum thread got me thinking about this topic. I used to think about it a lot and had a lot of trepidation concerning being seen as a nice guy. I really was the quintessential nice guy. I once met a woman I had known for a bit and we started flirting with each [...]

One of the first things I learned when working for someone else, was that if I was appreciated in my job, I enjoyed my job more and felt good about the people I worked for. When I wasn’t appreciated, no matter how good the job, I didn’t like my boss and didn’t want to work [...]

A lot of people ask me about the proper mindset to make the Charisma Arts method work. It is really summed up in being approval giving rather than approval seeking. The Alpha (Nice) Male is someone who needs no validation from other people. He doesn’t talk to people with the goal of getting them to [...]

What was your biggest breakthrough with the Charisma Arts Method?
A client in San Francisco asked me this recently; he found the answer very helpful so I thought I would share it with you.
I am not only an instructor but I was also a client. I was in the same place many of you are, when [...]

So those of you who were on the last San Francisco workshop saw me bring home “a keeper”. She truly is one of the most amazing women I have met. HBCowboyBoots ended up being too busy for me and so I stopped bothering. However this woman I met in “The City” is a true beauty [...]