I once read the greatest conversational faux pas was to ask what someone does. Men get defensive when women ask that thinking they might be probing into his financial situation. Women hear that and know they are in for another un-original conversation. So avoid that question, check. Wait, damn it, I once again found myself [...]

“live love learn
leap over labyrinths
lighten up
let go of lethargy
liberate liking
lampoon lamblike
lacerate languidness
lubricate liberty
laugh
lace up limitation
levitate
lead larger-than-life
lust after leaving a legacy”
- AS

Entitlement is a poison that will destroy a business from the inside out. This feeling has a number of causes and solutions, however if it is left unchecked it will create resentment and spread to other people in your organization. I have been on both sides of it from feeling entitled working for a company, [...]

Leadership is not always about who is most qualified.
Leadership is not always about who will do the best job.
Leadership is not always about being the person everyone thinks should lead.
Leadership is not about being right or being the best.
The leaders I have met that are the most effective are ones who are often [...]

I figured i would give a bit of an update since big changes have been happening lately.
Charisma Arts and I have officially parted ways.

It has been an interesting journey with CA. I think they offer an amazing path for men to learn to be more social and better with women. I still highly recommend them. [...]