Comments on: Calling The Day After Sex http://www.charismatips.com/calling-the-day-after-sex/ From Charisma Coaching Tue, 24 Aug 2010 02:42:58 -0500 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.8.5 hourly 1 By: Edge – Evolving Links 12.06.08 | Pick-up Evolution http://www.charismatips.com/calling-the-day-after-sex/comment-page-1/#comment-27296 Edge – Evolving Links 12.06.08 | Pick-up Evolution Tue, 01 Dec 2009 15:20:22 +0000 http://www.charismatips.com/?p=329#comment-27296 [...] Charisma Tips » Calling The Day After Sex [...] [...] Charisma Tips » Calling The Day After Sex [...]

]]> By: Pheres http://www.charismatips.com/calling-the-day-after-sex/comment-page-1/#comment-25379 Pheres Thu, 08 Oct 2009 09:35:57 +0000 http://www.charismatips.com/?p=329#comment-25379 Thank you for your advice you for the article. For the first time EVER did I had sex with a guy that I realy felt compatible with via phone calls and texts. We had only physically met 2 prior times before we did the deed. To my surprise he never called back!!! I tried to tell him in an email how hurt I was. I went through the whole I am a slut thing, to I need to go to a Dr. and make sure I didn't contract a disease (which I still will do). I sent him this article to get him to understand that I am not this "emotional" woman. We woman do go through all that you have said. Lord knows I have had enough tears shed on my shoulder when my friends guy didn't call back. I told my one and only "dog", that all he had to do was call the next day to even gently say "it wasn't going to work out because of......" Thank you for your understanding. I don't feel nuts. First and last time with a "dog". I would rather be alone than go through this feeling of feeling like a slut. And.. the sex of course was terrible, because it was too soon and his kids who were asleep, were down the hall. They could have woken up at any moment. And he never called.... I had to write an email I was so upset, and to be honest I still am. I am 44 and never had that happen to me. I feel like I lost my sense of intuition. Thank you for your advice you for the article. For the first time EVER did I had sex with a guy that I realy felt compatible with via phone calls and texts. We had only physically met 2 prior times before we did the deed. To my surprise he never called back!!! I tried to tell him in an email how hurt I was. I went through the whole I am a slut thing, to I need to go to a Dr. and make sure I didn’t contract a disease (which I still will do). I sent him this article to get him to understand that I am not this “emotional” woman. We woman do go through all that you have said. Lord knows I have had enough tears shed on my shoulder when my friends guy didn’t call back. I told my one and only “dog”, that all he had to do was call the next day to even gently say “it wasn’t going to work out because of……” Thank you for your understanding. I don’t feel nuts. First and last time with a “dog”. I would rather be alone than go through this feeling of feeling like a slut. And.. the sex of course was terrible, because it was too soon and his kids who were asleep, were down the hall. They could have woken up at any moment. And he never called…. I had to write an email I was so upset, and to be honest I still am. I am 44 and never had that happen to me. I feel like I lost my sense of intuition.

]]> By: Dan M http://www.charismatips.com/calling-the-day-after-sex/comment-page-1/#comment-21496 Dan M Tue, 09 Jun 2009 07:04:54 +0000 http://www.charismatips.com/?p=329#comment-21496 Unfortunately he was only in it for the sex. Once he got it he was done. Some men are like that. He was in it for the chase and when he got it he was done. It's an asshole thing to do and really the only way to avoid it is make a guy go on more dates before he gets sex. Men love a chase, sometimes that is what they like more than you. You didn't do anything wrong, and worse yet it might happen to you again in the future with another guy. Don't take it personal. Make sure you make a guy wait a few dates and it will be a rare occurrence. Unfortunately he was only in it for the sex. Once he got it he was done. Some men are like that. He was in it for the chase and when he got it he was done. It’s an asshole thing to do and really the only way to avoid it is make a guy go on more dates before he gets sex.

Men love a chase, sometimes that is what they like more than you. You didn’t do anything wrong, and worse yet it might happen to you again in the future with another guy. Don’t take it personal. Make sure you make a guy wait a few dates and it will be a rare occurrence.

]]> By: sara http://www.charismatips.com/calling-the-day-after-sex/comment-page-1/#comment-21492 sara Tue, 09 Jun 2009 03:33:36 +0000 http://www.charismatips.com/?p=329#comment-21492 i have a situation where its hard to figure out..does he or does he NOT want me.. I have been friends with his sister for about 2 years now i go over the house i see him all the time.. this past november he asked me for my phone number, i could tell he wanted it badly- i waited a few days, gave him my number we messaged eachother back n forth for a week or so.. he wanted to see me.We watched some t.v together, and he was tellin me how he didnt think i was serious about him,and that he wants to be with me and all that good talk. well a week later i had sex with him.He dropped me off at home the next morning. i waited for a call or txt later that day.The following day,the next day after that and the next day.until finally i couldnt take it i txt him and asked him why he hasnt called, and he said i been busy and he told me i should have called him.he then asked to see me again that night, n that he would call me later and he did not, i waited a few days no calls no messages. I had my number changed- didnt speak to him until the middle of may i went over his house with his sister, he then was begging me for my new number- I kept saying No everyday he would ask. i told him im not going through what he put me through last time we got together. he said he wouldnt do it again.a week after him askin me for my new number i gave it to him, he chased me for about 4 or 5 days calling me off the hook, asking when can he see me and that things will be different this time & of course stupid me.. had sex with him a few days later-- after..no call- day 2 no call .. day 3 i txt him said whats up, where ya been -he said busy n that i didnt call him.i said i shouldnt have to call you! i put my feelings out there on the line again for you thinkin it was gonna be different like you told me and made it seem like,nobody is gona lead me on and take from me what i treasure the most(Me & My Body). he litterally replied back and said sara your weird why did this happen???? thanks for reading! i have a situation where its hard to figure out..does he or does he NOT want me..
I have been friends with his sister for about 2 years now i go over the house i see him all the time..
this past november he asked me for my phone number, i could tell he wanted it badly- i waited a few days, gave him my number we messaged eachother back n forth for a week or so.. he wanted to see me.We watched some t.v together, and he was tellin me how he didnt think i was serious about him,and that he wants to be with me and all that good talk. well a week later i had sex with him.He dropped me off at home the next morning. i waited for a call or txt later that day.The following day,the next day after that and the next day.until finally i couldnt take it i txt him and asked him why he hasnt called, and he said i been busy and he told me i should have called him.he then asked to see me again that night, n that he would call me later and he did not, i waited a few days no calls no messages. I had my number changed- didnt speak to him until

the middle of may
i went over his house with his sister, he then was begging me for my new number- I kept saying No everyday he would ask. i told him im not going through what he put me through last time we got together.
he said he wouldnt do it again.a week after him askin me for my new number i gave it to him, he chased me for about 4 or 5 days calling me off the hook, asking when can he see me and that things will be different this time &
of course stupid me.. had sex with him a few days later– after..no call- day 2 no call .. day 3 i txt him said whats up, where ya been -he said busy n that i didnt call him.i said i shouldnt have to call you! i put my feelings out there on the line again for you thinkin it was gonna be different like you told me and made it seem like,nobody is gona lead me on and take from me what i treasure the most(Me & My Body). he litterally replied back and said sara your weird

why did this happen????

thanks for reading!

]]> By: Rabbit http://www.charismatips.com/calling-the-day-after-sex/comment-page-1/#comment-20970 Rabbit Sun, 03 May 2009 19:13:31 +0000 http://www.charismatips.com/?p=329#comment-20970 Thank u. Thank u.

]]> By: Infinity http://www.charismatips.com/calling-the-day-after-sex/comment-page-1/#comment-17290 Infinity Mon, 08 Dec 2008 02:40:31 +0000 http://www.charismatips.com/?p=329#comment-17290 Its important that guys adhere to this rule. If you respect women then you will save them from all of the mind games they put themselves through uncontrollably and just make the call. It's 1 minute out of your day that could potential lead to greatness in the beginning of a relationship. Nice article, Dan. Its important that guys adhere to this rule. If you respect women then you will save them from all of the mind games they put themselves through uncontrollably and just make the call. It’s 1 minute out of your day that could potential lead to greatness in the beginning of a relationship.

Nice article, Dan.

]]> By: Dan M http://www.charismatips.com/calling-the-day-after-sex/comment-page-1/#comment-17224 Dan M Sat, 06 Dec 2008 18:17:43 +0000 http://www.charismatips.com/?p=329#comment-17224 Not as important as the first time you have sex. This might be where a text is ok but a call is fine just not required. Not as important as the first time you have sex. This might be where a text is ok but a call is fine just not required.

]]> By: Lodge http://www.charismatips.com/calling-the-day-after-sex/comment-page-1/#comment-17140 Lodge Fri, 05 Dec 2008 03:25:00 +0000 http://www.charismatips.com/?p=329#comment-17140 What if you don't actually have sex with them (some clothes come off, but no actual intercourse), does the rule still apply? What if you don’t actually have sex with them (some clothes come off, but no actual intercourse), does the rule still apply?

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