Comments on: Cheating; Why We Do It

By: A Good Girl

A Good Girl — Sat, 22 May 2010 17:57:30 +0000

Great post! This explains just what I thought about why most men seem to be constantly searching for a better deal and end up ruining a good thing.It all boils down to your precious egos’ which are the worst thing a man could have. Communication is almost a longshot considering men and women have been conditioned since childhood to communicate differently and often misunderstand each other..

So the cycle continues..

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By: Dave

Dave — Tue, 16 Dec 2008 17:58:40 +0000

I do not disagree with what you write here but the discussion is a missing a critical element for me. Infidelity is one thing if you are 19 and learning about dating and another thing altogether if you are 32 and married with kids and a mortgage / joint finances.

In a long term committed relationship we draw a portion of our identity from the relationship. It is the shattering of this identity that makes the discovery of infidelity so painful. Did you know that many “betrayed” partners have described the discovery of unfaithfulness as more painful than rape?

There are dozens of books and studies to back this up, but just check out survivinginfidelity.com and read in “Just Found Out” for a few minutes.

I enjoy your work, Dan. Good luck.

By: Will

Will — Fri, 12 Dec 2008 17:29:00 +0000

completely agree