I am always open to suggestions!

Dan

He at least shared something of himself before jumping back on the closed ended question train. I think she just thought he was cute. He at least was real and friendly i guess. We could talk about this or any other clip on youtube forever, but let’s move back to comments about the subject manner at hand. If anyone wants to continue the discussion do it on the blog post about vibe and approach http://www.charismatips.com/?p=167

The pretty blonde confounds the players, but I think the girl just responds to his giving vibe.

Honestly he’s right, sometimes i feel like i put up a false image when i’m around people. I know i’ve been doing it ever since i was young.” Then relate to that, “You know i think the funniest story of that was when I was……..”

Say it genuinely and be confident about it. The best way to DQ being false is by genuinely accepting you are. Shows just the opposite.

Which is lame, but anyway.

Think this is a JM priority, I got this shit because of incongruity between the way I speak and my job, and in fact Juggler recommends incongruity in the book – if your a banker wear rapper clothes, if your a rapper dress like a banker – that is also affectation (I think), so some will should be applied to creating an elegant DQ.

How do I DQ ‘affected’.
as in ‘kindergarden!’ (turns to friend) ‘his so affected, see English people’.

I get this once every few years, likely more often as I become more social, it’s not true, I’m 100% real, apart from the lies, so it’s just people keen to feel superior, and I need a solid, versatile DQ to handle it.

Suggestions guys.

This might be too much to ask, and it’s totally cool if it’s too much, but can you do a video of kinoing? I, for some reason, have trouble picturing someone touching another person with the back of the hand. Or doing the hand flip that Dimitri mentioned in his blog…

But, this post has tremendously helped me in my interactions. Thx again!!

First of all, let me thank you for another quality post. I have long been searching for this kind of site, with this information but without the usual “PUA” style.

What you write in this post is very true, I noticed it when trying to apply Amanojack’s guidelines and your tips from older posts.

Now I would like to ask for a post on kissing. The same detailed breakdown you have done here. In most cases (it’s not like there were THAT many, but still) so far kino plus SOI would work great for me. However, recently I got sort of stuck with the new girl. Kino is working great both ways, touches, caresses, all that stuff. However, whenever I would try to kiss her, be it on the lips, or ear or neck, she would back off a little. Now I have never seen that before, a girl that would dive with her hand under my shirt, but would go stiff when I try to kiss her. Any hint on that?

So, if possible, could you write a similar post on such a basic thing as kissing, maybe a couple of words on timing, maybe some hints how to behave if it backfires (as in you kiss her, but she didn’t really feel ready for it), and so on. Probably it won’t help me with this girl, but I might be missing something.

Piro/Largo

And same with guys, I always felt they were more friendly with me when touching my shoulder or so, now I understand so when I need to really thank someone or so I don’t hesitate to touch them in an appropriate way.