Comments on: Dating and the Confident Woman

By: Edge – Evolving Links 11.15.08 | Pick-up Evolution

Edge – Evolving Links 11.15.08 | Pick-up Evolution — Sat, 28 Nov 2009 01:55:53 +0000

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By: Dan M

Dan M — Fri, 17 Apr 2009 18:38:14 +0000

This article definitely was not well received by all women. I do find that women can be assertive but it is often better if they at least allow men to have a chance to be assertive.

By: Vincent Ng

Vincent Ng — Fri, 17 Apr 2009 17:11:04 +0000

This is such a great article, well written, and articulates a lot of different points on the fine balance of gender roles that we both have to play. I wholeheartedly agree, that women should let their men feel like men sometimes. This is a big reason why men won’t commit to a women that’s too confident…because she ALWAYS HAS TO…let the man win the small battles. After all…our egos need to be fed as much as we eat food many times.

By: Will

Will — Thu, 13 Nov 2008 18:37:49 +0000

I use Google Calendar to plan events with my girl. While most of the Calendar is filled with events / activities I planned, I award her very much when she makes propositions for nights.. It’s good to promote input from both sides.

By: Whacko

Whacko — Thu, 13 Nov 2008 10:20:55 +0000

I may be a man, but I did enjoy this post. It reminds me that I too need to be more assertive more often. I can see myself say: “what would you like to do?”, just because I want her to have a good time. And that’s mainly because I really don’t care what we do as long as it’s fun I also do this with my friends.
So I’m gonna try be more assertive in those kinds of situations.

By: Chelsea

Chelsea — Thu, 13 Nov 2008 06:59:52 +0000

What a great post! I think it’s a GREAT lesson for gals to know that not only should we leave some of the planning up to guys, but they will actually ENJOY it! And, we will, too! I think any gal would be happy that her man made the plans for the evening, let’s say – because then she knows he cares about her and their relationship AND the stress is off of her. I needed that reminder to let the guy be in charge often. It’s easy to lead in a relationship when you’re used to being a leader in life in general. GREAT writing – love it!!