No single mistake can ruin an interaction or a date faster than this, and you have probably been doing it for years!
I know when I first started to uncover the secrets to better conversation with women the number one thing that was screwing me up was this simple mistake.
Me: Where are you from?
Her: I’m from San Diego
Me: Cool, so your from San Diego. What brought you up here?
Her: I got a job in advertising up here.
Me: So your in advertising huh?
Notice the problem? Notice the problem? It’s as bad as a TV sitcom repeat playing over and over. Stop repeating what she says, she was the one who said it, she knows what she just said.
I did this because I was filling space. It is a lot more comfortable to let my mouth run on autopilot and repeat the last thing she said then be confident in a pause to collect my next thought. T
The problem is that by repeating what she just said you aren’t fooling anyone. She can see that you are just filling space and time and it will make it seem like you are more nervous
Tags: Conversation, Dates, Dating, Dating Mistakes, Geek Dating Tips
