Comments on: Phone Game, Part I http://www.charismatips.com/phone-game-part-i/ From Charisma Coaching Tue, 24 Aug 2010 02:42:58 -0500 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.8.5 hourly 1 By: Charisma Tips http://www.charismatips.com/phone-game-part-i/comment-page-1/#comment-836 Charisma Tips Sun, 24 Jun 2007 19:52:17 +0000 http://www.charismatips.com/?p=116#comment-836 [...] a previous article I wrote down the Charisma Arts approach to phone game. I have since modified my actual approach to this process and I have been having a bit more success [...] [...] a previous article I wrote down the Charisma Arts approach to phone game. I have since modified my actual approach to this process and I have been having a bit more success [...]

]]> By: CheshireCat http://www.charismatips.com/phone-game-part-i/comment-page-1/#comment-623 CheshireCat Wed, 31 Jan 2007 06:19:00 +0000 http://www.charismatips.com/?p=116#comment-623 When's part 2 ;) When’s part 2 ;)

]]> By: Matt http://www.charismatips.com/phone-game-part-i/comment-page-1/#comment-624 Matt Wed, 24 Jan 2007 22:02:00 +0000 http://www.charismatips.com/?p=116#comment-624 Thank Dan. I'll try it in the future. In the past I have decent success with no texting. Waiting until later in the week for the first call. Maybe two to five days. Leave a message if she doesn't pick up. The msg is along the same lines you suggest. Perhaps funny if I'm feeling it. Finally, calling back once more, exactly week later if she hasn't returned my first call. I like calling twice. But trying four times could be fun. Thank Dan. I’ll try it in the future. In the past I have decent success with no texting. Waiting until later in the week for the first call. Maybe two to five days. Leave a message if she doesn’t pick up. The msg is along the same lines you suggest. Perhaps funny if I’m feeling it. Finally, calling back once more, exactly week later if she hasn’t returned my first call. I like calling twice. But trying four times could be fun.

]]> By: Chad http://www.charismatips.com/phone-game-part-i/comment-page-1/#comment-626 Chad Tue, 23 Jan 2007 19:05:00 +0000 http://www.charismatips.com/?p=116#comment-626 That makes total sense. I'm so glad you are posting on this. That makes total sense. I’m so glad you are posting on this.

]]> By: Pickup Podcast http://www.charismatips.com/phone-game-part-i/comment-page-1/#comment-625 Pickup Podcast Tue, 23 Jan 2007 17:42:00 +0000 http://www.charismatips.com/?p=116#comment-625 Don't worry about the amount of times that you call. Four may sound like a lot but it's not excessive. Honestly, if she's not interested after all, then you've lost nothing by calling 4 times. If she IS interested, she'll be GLAD to called her 4 times. Either way, you come out on top. <br /><br />Besides, you NEVER know which women are actually going to call you back. There've been plenty of times, especially when I was new to the game, when I thought I was #closing just to eject because I thought SHE wasn't interested, and have ended up going on a day2 with a girl who really persued me over the phone. On the other hand, there've been times when I had a seemingly solid connection going with a woman, and for some reason or another, things just didn't work out when the time came to take things further. It's somewhat of a gamble, so you should maximize your odds.<br /><br />The last thing I'd add here is not to get numbers but to get DATES. In other words, don't close with "We should hang out some time," but rather make plans with her and make getting her number a logistical hurdle, NOT a goal or an end unto itself.<br /><br />Love the blog Dan. Keep it up.<br /><br />-Jordon<br />http://www.pickuppodcast.com Don’t worry about the amount of times that you call. Four may sound like a lot but it’s not excessive. Honestly, if she’s not interested after all, then you’ve lost nothing by calling 4 times. If she IS interested, she’ll be GLAD to called her 4 times. Either way, you come out on top.

Besides, you NEVER know which women are actually going to call you back. There’ve been plenty of times, especially when I was new to the game, when I thought I was #closing just to eject because I thought SHE wasn’t interested, and have ended up going on a day2 with a girl who really persued me over the phone. On the other hand, there’ve been times when I had a seemingly solid connection going with a woman, and for some reason or another, things just didn’t work out when the time came to take things further. It’s somewhat of a gamble, so you should maximize your odds.

The last thing I’d add here is not to get numbers but to get DATES. In other words, don’t close with “We should hang out some time,” but rather make plans with her and make getting her number a logistical hurdle, NOT a goal or an end unto itself.

Love the blog Dan. Keep it up.

-Jordon
http://www.pickuppodcast.com

]]> By: SocialHitchHiker http://www.charismatips.com/phone-game-part-i/comment-page-1/#comment-627 SocialHitchHiker Tue, 23 Jan 2007 11:29:00 +0000 http://www.charismatips.com/?p=116#comment-627 The key here is you DON"T ask her to call you back. That puts the ball in her court and women are really bad about returning phone calls, even if they do like you. You are taking the lead here. <br /><br />It doesn't come off needy because she knows what to expect and no one is left wating for the other person. The key here is you DON”T ask her to call you back. That puts the ball in her court and women are really bad about returning phone calls, even if they do like you. You are taking the lead here.

It doesn’t come off needy because she knows what to expect and no one is left wating for the other person.

]]> By: Anonymous http://www.charismatips.com/phone-game-part-i/comment-page-1/#comment-628 Anonymous Tue, 23 Jan 2007 08:24:00 +0000 http://www.charismatips.com/?p=116#comment-628 Why call so much? Four times seems excessive to me. Twice in a day seems too much. Why not call once? Or twice at the maximum? I'm of the opinion that if I do a good job before getting the number... that she should want to return my first call. This is something I'm still working on myself.<br /><br />Thanks Dan! Why call so much? Four times seems excessive to me. Twice in a day seems too much. Why not call once? Or twice at the maximum? I’m of the opinion that if I do a good job before getting the number… that she should want to return my first call. This is something I’m still working on myself.

Thanks Dan!

]]> By: SocialHitchHiker http://www.charismatips.com/phone-game-part-i/comment-page-1/#comment-629 SocialHitchHiker Tue, 23 Jan 2007 00:01:00 +0000 http://www.charismatips.com/?p=116#comment-629 I don't do too much teasing on text because it can come off wrong very easily. I tease and am confident, but not really cocky. That doesn't work for me, genuiness works great though.<br /><br />If you made a nice connection with her she wants to hear from you.<br /><br />Keep reading the blog. You'll see i'm not about C+F or worrying about how alpha I'm coming off. I'm just me. I don’t do too much teasing on text because it can come off wrong very easily. I tease and am confident, but not really cocky. That doesn’t work for me, genuiness works great though.

If you made a nice connection with her she wants to hear from you.

Keep reading the blog. You’ll see i’m not about C+F or worrying about how alpha I’m coming off. I’m just me.

]]> By: Anonymous http://www.charismatips.com/phone-game-part-i/comment-page-1/#comment-630 Anonymous Mon, 22 Jan 2007 23:57:00 +0000 http://www.charismatips.com/?p=116#comment-630 Hi, Dan, really enjoy your blog.<br /><br />I really like the idea of texting that night. I've started to do this with some success, but more along the lines of light C+F teasing. I like the earnestness of the messages you send, but I'm wondering if I can pull it off as I'm a very recently recovering AFC. <br /><br />Is there a time when you'd go C+F/teasing, or do you just trust that you're alpha enough to make the earnestness okay? Hi, Dan, really enjoy your blog.

I really like the idea of texting that night. I’ve started to do this with some success, but more along the lines of light C+F teasing. I like the earnestness of the messages you send, but I’m wondering if I can pull it off as I’m a very recently recovering AFC.

Is there a time when you’d go C+F/teasing, or do you just trust that you’re alpha enough to make the earnestness okay?

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