Comments on: Post SOI http://www.charismatips.com/post-soi/ From Charisma Coaching Fri, 27 Jan 2012 17:36:52 -0700 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.8.5 hourly 1 By: El Mandala http://www.charismatips.com/post-soi/comment-page-1/#comment-736 El Mandala Tue, 24 Apr 2007 20:08:28 +0000 http://www.charismatips.com/?p=72#comment-736 He you guys! really cool post and wonderful comms to! I liek your frames/reframes! that's nice, is kind a bit of my style to! Love it! Bests, El Mandala. Bs. As. Argentina He you guys! really cool post and wonderful comms to!

I liek your frames/reframes!

that’s nice, is kind a bit of my style to!

Love it!

Bests,

El Mandala.
Bs. As. Argentina

]]> By: Anonymous http://www.charismatips.com/post-soi/comment-page-1/#comment-272 Anonymous Fri, 17 Nov 2006 15:16:00 +0000 http://www.charismatips.com/?p=72#comment-272 ... in other words: stop seeing it as a way from taking something from her. Start seeing it completely as a wonderful gift from you to her. <BR/>When you start internalizing the belief that sexual tension is a gift you give her, you can SOI every woman in a room. You're not there to take something from then, and/or to trick taking something from them... you're there to give them the gift of feeling wonderful feelings. … in other words: stop seeing it as a way from taking something from her. Start seeing it completely as a wonderful gift from you to her.
When you start internalizing the belief that sexual tension is a gift you give her, you can SOI every woman in a room. You’re not there to take something from then, and/or to trick taking something from them… you’re there to give them the gift of feeling wonderful feelings.

]]> By: Anonymous http://www.charismatips.com/post-soi/comment-page-1/#comment-273 Anonymous Fri, 17 Nov 2006 15:13:00 +0000 http://www.charismatips.com/?p=72#comment-273 Another way of saying it, which helps me:<BR/><BR/>Give her the gift of feeling sexy and beautiful. Give her the gift of feeling like a very sexy woman. You don't need anything from her, you give her the gift of feeling wonderful and sexy. Another way of saying it, which helps me:

Give her the gift of feeling sexy and beautiful. Give her the gift of feeling like a very sexy woman. You don’t need anything from her, you give her the gift of feeling wonderful and sexy.

]]> By: Anonymous http://www.charismatips.com/post-soi/comment-page-1/#comment-274 Anonymous Fri, 17 Nov 2006 15:11:00 +0000 http://www.charismatips.com/?p=72#comment-274 One of the things i realized with sexual tension, is that it is purely a tool to make things interested for both of you, especially for her. Women WANT sexual tension, and it doens't mean you are forcing her to do stuff with you she doesn't want to... you don't even have to touch her! You can comletely respect the fact that a woman doesn't want to sleep with you before she knows you a couple of months, or will not sleep with you at all. Sexual tension makes things fun, keeps boredom away, makes her feel very very very good! <BR/>Sexual tension IS NOT obliging a woman to have sex right away or that night or whatever, it is something that makes a man and a woman have very very fun interactions, and it makes 'em connect better. Sexual tension makes male-female connections more rock&roll. One of the things i realized with sexual tension, is that it is purely a tool to make things interested for both of you, especially for her. Women WANT sexual tension, and it doens’t mean you are forcing her to do stuff with you she doesn’t want to… you don’t even have to touch her! You can comletely respect the fact that a woman doesn’t want to sleep with you before she knows you a couple of months, or will not sleep with you at all. Sexual tension makes things fun, keeps boredom away, makes her feel very very very good!
Sexual tension IS NOT obliging a woman to have sex right away or that night or whatever, it is something that makes a man and a woman have very very fun interactions, and it makes ‘em connect better. Sexual tension makes male-female connections more rock&roll.

]]> By: larrythecaveman http://www.charismatips.com/post-soi/comment-page-1/#comment-275 larrythecaveman Sun, 20 Aug 2006 15:01:00 +0000 http://www.charismatips.com/?p=72#comment-275 > Still, when I soi, the girl seems sometimes completely uncomfortable (looks like i'm a weird guy), or says "i have a boyfriend"... <BR/><BR/>Speaking of common things that could go wrong:<BR/><BR/>Maybe you were not flirty enough. You went in indirect, talking about the weather. Then you dropped an SOI on her. She didn't see that coming. > Still, when I soi, the girl seems sometimes completely uncomfortable (looks like i’m a weird guy), or says “i have a boyfriend”…

Speaking of common things that could go wrong:

Maybe you were not flirty enough. You went in indirect, talking about the weather. Then you dropped an SOI on her. She didn’t see that coming.

]]> By: SocialHitchHiker http://www.charismatips.com/post-soi/comment-page-1/#comment-276 SocialHitchHiker Fri, 18 Aug 2006 14:26:00 +0000 http://www.charismatips.com/?p=72#comment-276 A lot of common things could be going wrong. Are you doing a SOI on her high point? Also it sounds like you are delivering the SOI and waiting for her reaction. You have to bring it up and be comfortable with it not wanting a good reaction from her and waiting to see how she'll take it.<BR/><BR/>You SOI in normal conversation and continue, DON'T wait for a reaction. Ignore a negative reaction and continue with relate and reward then re-SOI later. She will come around if you are doing relate and reward well. A lot of common things could be going wrong. Are you doing a SOI on her high point? Also it sounds like you are delivering the SOI and waiting for her reaction. You have to bring it up and be comfortable with it not wanting a good reaction from her and waiting to see how she’ll take it.

You SOI in normal conversation and continue, DON’T wait for a reaction. Ignore a negative reaction and continue with relate and reward then re-SOI later. She will come around if you are doing relate and reward well.

]]> By: Anonymous http://www.charismatips.com/post-soi/comment-page-1/#comment-277 Anonymous Fri, 18 Aug 2006 10:12:00 +0000 http://www.charismatips.com/?p=72#comment-277 Great post SHH! Still, when I soi, the girl seems sometimes completely uncomfortable (looks like i'm a weird guy), or says "i have a boyfriend"... How would you react to this? Rapidly ask another question? (what if you don't have a good question ready?)<BR/><BR/>Thanks a lot man for your blog, this one thing was still puzzling me about SOI, and maybe you can clear it up!<BR/><BR/>Willy Great post SHH! Still, when I soi, the girl seems sometimes completely uncomfortable (looks like i’m a weird guy), or says “i have a boyfriend”… How would you react to this? Rapidly ask another question? (what if you don’t have a good question ready?)

Thanks a lot man for your blog, this one thing was still puzzling me about SOI, and maybe you can clear it up!

Willy

]]> By: turbine http://www.charismatips.com/post-soi/comment-page-1/#comment-278 turbine Fri, 18 Aug 2006 02:52:00 +0000 http://www.charismatips.com/?p=72#comment-278 Gold. Pure f**king gold. Gold. Pure f**king gold.

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