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Reward & Relate | PUA Lingo — Sat, 20 Jun 2009 22:15:23 +0000

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By: Andy

Andy — Thu, 19 Feb 2009 04:19:58 +0000

Brilliant post. Wish i’d known about how to properly relate in a conversation 10 years ago.

By: Noble

Noble — Wed, 29 Aug 2007 01:11:49 +0000

Great post, talking about the emotions behind the actions or subjects is a fantastic idea just to keep in mind. What runs through your head is the categories of subject and its tangents, I am going to add “related emotions” now for all interactions. Thanks!

By: Anonymous

Anonymous — Tue, 28 Aug 2007 18:24:19 +0000

“Thing how much you could talk about that. I can even use subjects like kiteboarding or anything else I am really excited about to relate to having that sense of accomplishment. Then just by doing that we are talking about a lot more and the conversational topics become a lot more varied and exciting.”

OK Dan, she talks about a cheescake, you talk about kiteboarding, then return to her cooking. That strikes me as a little strained, like conversational life support. Is it in reality? (or am I logic-ing too much).

Also what are the most common feelings behind things she describes early in conversations?
(please tell me this, so I can think of suitable tangential relates ahead of time).