No single mistake can ruin an interaction or a date faster than this, and you have probably been doing it for years!
I know when I first started to uncover the secrets to better conversation with women the number one thing that was screwing me up was this simple mistake.
Me: Where are you from?
Her: I’m from [...]

I think it might just be more intimidating to start a conversation with a guy in a social situation like a bar or party than it is a woman. Unless you are gay you probably don’t think about ways to go talk to guys when you are out. It is however an important skill to [...]

So the title is a bit tounge-in-cheek since if you do these techniques you will become a better listener. Every woman wants a guy who is a good listener, and that doesn’t mean just listening to her problems.
Check out this video to hone this power of listening for good rather than evil:

No matter how original you are, no matter how much you try to avoid the question, it will come up almost every time. Instead of avoiding it embrace the question and learn to give an original interesting answer regardless of how dull your job is.

“What should I say to her?” is the most common question I get from clients. One option is to memorize a bunch of pickup lines or routines. The problem is no matter how well you do it she will notice when you shift from your memorized material to natural conversation. Starting a conversation naturally takes [...]