Are you where the women are?

May 7th, 2013

This is an important question I ask myself and clients when we’re currently not meeting as many interesting women as we’d like. Let’s examine the example of grocery shopping. This is an awesome opportunity to start conversations and maybe meet a new friend or date. Most of us have to do it, but are we [...]

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Eye contact – Are you making enough?

March 31st, 2013

If you consider yourself even slightly shy around women you’re attracted to, chances are you’re probably missing out on the benefits of making more eye contact. I remember hearing an author on body language calling them the “grenades” of body language because they are so powerful. I’d agree with this analogy considering the waves of [...]

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Free feedback on your dating skills!

March 24th, 2013

Unfortunately we can’t have social skills experts watching each interaction and giving us feedback. You can get a little closer to this though! When I was learning how to start conversations with women I found it valuable to ask for their feedback. If I approached a woman who happened to be unavailable or it just [...]

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When you need a break

February 18th, 2013

In my last post I wrote about the importance of taking action to improve your dating and social life.  We both know that sometimes we need to take a break from facing our most challenging or uncomfortable actions.  Sometimes I don’t feel up to starting conversations with new attractive women.  I’m either too tired or [...]

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Information Sabatoge

February 12th, 2013

I love information.  I love to learn.  These are wonderful traits that you may also share.  They served me well in school when the goal was absorbing tons of information and spitting it back out on the test.  This isn’t the case when it comes to improving your social and dating skills.  It doesn’t matter much if [...]

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