Confidence is the strongest aphrodisiac to women, yet arrogance is the poison in that concoction of love. There is such a fine line sometimes between cockiness, self confidence, assertiveness, and arrogance. When that line gets crossed it is a major turn off to women. The biggest difference I have seen in the effect of arrogance [...]

So the title is a bit tounge-in-cheek since if you do these techniques you will become a better listener. Every woman wants a guy who is a good listener, and that doesn’t mean just listening to her problems. Check out this video to hone this power of listening for good rather than evil:

Just a quick pet peeve for today. I love texting but nothing gets me more annoyed when people text me “How are you?” It drives me nuts. What are they expecting when they text this? Am I supposed to write a book on everything going on in my life in a tiny little text? Also [...]

No matter how original you are, no matter how much you try to avoid the question, it will come up almost every time. Instead of avoiding it embrace the question and learn to give an original interesting answer regardless of how dull your job is.

“What should I say to her?” is the most common question I get from clients. One option is to memorize a bunch of pickup lines or routines. The problem is no matter how well you do it she will notice when you shift from your memorized material to natural conversation. Starting a conversation naturally takes [...]