I am staring at her lips as she speaks.
I so want to kiss her but is the time right?
What will she do if I kiss her and she is not ready? Will I get slapped?
Oh that deep fear of rejection, my nemesis, stop plaguing my thoughts with doubt.
That’s it, I am going [...]

1 ) Over-Explaining
I remember when a girl asked me how is Bio-Diesel made when I told her I use it in my car. I think I went on for close to fifteen minutes explaining from start to finish the process from turning vegetable oil into Bio-Diesel. She finally stopped me and teased me pretty [...]

I have known some awful flirts in my time, primarily me. I remember when at one point this woman was shamelessly flirting with me and everything was going over my head. She finally said to me “You really are bad at flirting you know!”
Not everyone gets flirting. It is a special playful rapport that is [...]

Flirting is a different experience for men and woman. Each gender has signals, some of which are unconscious, that they send when flirting and I will talk more about gender specific flirting behavior later. However, there are also general flirting behaviors that are universal in both sexes. As I said in previous postings, [...]

So, we know what flirting is and what purpose it serves. But do we know how to go about it? What to do? What not to do?
The first thing to remember is not to take it too seriously. Flirting is meant to be a fun way to break the ice. Don’t go into thinking [...]