If you consider yourself even slightly shy around women you’re attracted to, chances are you’re probably missing out on the benefits of making more eye contact. I remember hearing an author on body language calling them the “grenades” of body language because they are so powerful. I’d agree with this analogy considering the waves of [...]

Unfortunately we can’t have social skills experts watching each interaction and giving us feedback. You can get a little closer to this though! When I was learning how to start conversations with women I found it valuable to ask for their feedback. If I approached a woman who happened to be unavailable or it just [...]

I am staring at her lips as she speaks. I so want to kiss her but is the time right? What will she do if I kiss her and she is not ready? Will I get slapped? Oh that deep fear of rejection, my nemesis, stop plaguing my thoughts with doubt. That’s it, I am [...]

1 ) Over-Explaining I remember when a girl asked me how is Bio-Diesel made when I told her I use it in my car. I think I went on for close to fifteen minutes explaining from start to finish the process from turning vegetable oil into Bio-Diesel. She finally stopped me and teased me pretty [...]

I have known some awful flirts in my time, primarily me. I remember when at one point this woman was shamelessly flirting with me and everything was going over my head. She finally said to me “You really are bad at flirting you know!” Not everyone gets flirting. It is a special playful rapport that [...]