The most destructive thought in a man’s head after he meets a girl is “She might be THE ONE.” Oh don’t laugh, I guarantee you have had that thought recently yourself. Sure it might mask itself as “Wow she is so hot! I’ve never been with a girl this hot and I don’t want to [...]

Someone once asked me a party question, “Would you cheat if you didn’t know if your relationship was going to survive, you were very intoxicated, you met your fantasy person, and you knew you wouldn’t get caught.” Men almost always say yes. Women I find if honest most of the times say yes and those [...]

He said, “Really? I just saw her that morning why should I call her?” A woman in the workshop visibly jumped forward to the front of her seat leaning towards him nodding her head in agreement with me. “It’s all about reassurance. There is a feeling of uncertainty after the first time a woman sleeps [...]

“I want a man who I can put on a pedestal, and devote myself to.” Whoa, way too much pressure was my reaction. I actually read this recently on an online profile. It got me thinking about all the ways we put too much pressure on others and ourselves. There are two common ways we [...]

I do know most women don’t like when I tell them I date other women. That is why I say it in a way that keeps things a touch vague and open for changing that. “I’ve been dating a couple people but nothing serious.” is what i say after she inquires to my relationship status. [...]