Deacon: (about Carrie’s bun) Well, you know, in general, I think it’s, um––
Carrie: Just tell me.
Deacon: It’s ass ugly, girl

Now I admit I love a woman’s buns, but I HATE the “bun”. I don’t think I am alone either, after talking to quite a few men we are all in agreement, the hair in a bun look reminds us of an old librarian, not the sexy kind. I understand it is a quick and easy style to get your hair out of the way but please say NO to the BUN. Hair frames a face and by pulling it all back you might as well be bald in my book. A very pretty face is no match for the overwhelming ugli-fication a bun produces. Hairstyles that are up-do’s are actually pretty and let men see your neck, which is always a bit of a turn on, but the bun is in a class of it’s own.

I am not one of those guys who thinks women should never leave the house without being polished and put together. I love a woman who can be comfortable enough without makeup and not always have to worry about it. However I do love when that same woman can dress to the nines! Heels to a dive bar and sneakers to a lounge in the same woman is a huge turn on for me.

So do the pony tail, put a clip in your hair, get a sexy shorter cut, but please say no to the bun!